Fighting fire with fire will only ignite a bigger fire. So, I shall do the classic diplomatic approach to, hopefully, resolve this. Using SS skills.. such as bringing in relevant support, cross-referencing, etc (God bless good education) I try not to degrade WTF or anyone else for that matter, coz I really want everybody to be happy by the end of the day.
I don't really mind the comments about me... but I think the cruel comments about my band(either one he refers to) is going too far. I assume that WTF's a he, coz yea, from the tone, he can't possibly be a she, kan? 'Its stupid band like you', well I think this suggest that WTF relates the band with me, and it's kinda.... vague? Coz yea, I really have awesome, fun and funny band members whom you should consider.
I know nuts about how the music scene goes about and such. I'm not a fantastic musician myself, really. And I'm not really thatt serious about the whole doing-music thing, coz O's is coming and I can't afford to sacrifice revising time. In other words, it's a hobby. But, I do know what's musicianship's all about and, degrading other bands' is not part of it.
'god give u a sialan face' The use of God to criticise or insult others is an insult to God Himself. That got my blood go upstairs not because of the comment, but the use of God... coz I believe that God's the utmost merciful, forgiving. I don't know what's your beliefs but by saying that God's giving around sialan faces, it potrays a sinical image upon God, and that's not nice ah.
I'm not sure about WTF's intention(little provenance), but by the anonymous status, I guess WTF's secretly keeping the unhappiness inside, until now. I really don't mind talkingthings out, if only I know who you are.
Not only WTF, I believe everyone have their problems. I'm no different. It's only how we deal with them that differentiates the Hard and the Easy problems. I just watched Bawang Puting Bawang Merah and I came across this very impactful phrase. Henti menghitung semua cabaran yang ditimpa, dan mulalah bersyukur. Which means.... Stop counting all the problems you face, and start being grateful(to appreciate). So... yea.. gathered some pictures to remind ourselves how hard problems can get (which are actually faced by people like us) and how lucky we are: